multiple players - control over one game object

I'm currenty developing a game where many players interact together on one flying ship. Everyone should be able to fly(navigate) the ship(if no other currently is on the rudder). But only the owner of the ship can navigate it so the other players see it move, but i want that every player can control it. Also the other players(non owners) jiggle around on the ship when it flys or fall of the ship, the owner does not, even when he walks around while it flys. When a player who is not the owner of the ship trys to control it, it doesn't move on his screen and also the other players don't see the ship moving.
Somebody got an idea how to solve this problem so the other players behave the same like the owner of the ship?
Sorry for my englisch, I hope you understood the question :) .